Back to OP
I'm chief cook & bottlewasher in my house when I'm not away in Japan for the winter.
My partner Nerys has the full-time job out of the house.
I get up every morning to walk the dog then back to make her breakfast and lunch if she wants to take one to work.
Then through the week it's cleaning, shopping, cooking.
That's my role.
To support her.
The lady from Brisbane is doing the same thing.
Unlike a lot of partners these days, she doesn't want her cake and eat it too.